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	<title>Comments on: Firsts</title>
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	<description>the diary of wife, mother and failed domestic goddess in Africa</description>
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		<title>By: Gillian</title>
		<link>http://reluctantmemsahib.wordpress.com/2009/06/19/firsts/#comment-5263</link>
		<dc:creator>Gillian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 06:44:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello, hello,

Congratulations on your blog at Psychology Today. I love the way we get to develop skills and confidence in our own sandpit and then transfer onto a larger stage / different place. I hope it is paid work!

And I like the way your blog just keeps happening. Here it is, no pressure, and I can check it out. I love the family updates. Not just the kids growing up, but you and Mr 50 too. 

Many thanks,
Gillian</description>
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<p>Congratulations on your blog at Psychology Today. I love the way we get to develop skills and confidence in our own sandpit and then transfer onto a larger stage / different place. I hope it is paid work!</p>
<p>And I like the way your blog just keeps happening. Here it is, no pressure, and I can check it out. I love the family updates. Not just the kids growing up, but you and Mr 50 too. </p>
<p>Many thanks,<br />
Gillian</p>
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		<title>By: Elie</title>
		<link>http://reluctantmemsahib.wordpress.com/2009/06/19/firsts/#comment-5261</link>
		<dc:creator>Elie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 09:57:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congratulations on your Psychology Today blog! That is wonderful. I look forward to reading it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congratulations on your Psychology Today blog! That is wonderful. I look forward to reading it.</p>
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		<title>By: Stinking Billy</title>
		<link>http://reluctantmemsahib.wordpress.com/2009/06/19/firsts/#comment-5260</link>
		<dc:creator>Stinking Billy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 12:34:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Memsahib, I have been away for some time,  too, and for the purposes of a CDROM of my blog I have been working on, you don&#039;t happen to have published a photo of yourself during my absence, I suppose?  I remember the old one where your face is half-hidden behind a camera, but I never was any good at extrapolation.  ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Memsahib, I have been away for some time,  too, and for the purposes of a CDROM of my blog I have been working on, you don&#8217;t happen to have published a photo of yourself during my absence, I suppose?  I remember the old one where your face is half-hidden behind a camera, but I never was any good at extrapolation.  <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: rosiero</title>
		<link>http://reluctantmemsahib.wordpress.com/2009/06/19/firsts/#comment-5259</link>
		<dc:creator>rosiero</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 00:27:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Had missed you. Typhoid, eh? Hope you are better now. Such a lot of interesting firsts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Had missed you. Typhoid, eh? Hope you are better now. Such a lot of interesting firsts.</p>
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		<title>By: kathleen7</title>
		<link>http://reluctantmemsahib.wordpress.com/2009/06/19/firsts/#comment-5258</link>
		<dc:creator>kathleen7</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 18:31:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Glad to hear about the the new blog, your writing is so excellent and deserves to be heard in many places.  My son is 23 and at a university 3 hours away we are still going thru firsts and seeing him mature has been the most satisfying thing that has happened to me in my life.  Enjoy every step of the way.  Glad to hear you are feeling better.  kathleen/texas.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Glad to hear about the the new blog, your writing is so excellent and deserves to be heard in many places.  My son is 23 and at a university 3 hours away we are still going thru firsts and seeing him mature has been the most satisfying thing that has happened to me in my life.  Enjoy every step of the way.  Glad to hear you are feeling better.  kathleen/texas.</p>
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		<title>By: Kit</title>
		<link>http://reluctantmemsahib.wordpress.com/2009/06/19/firsts/#comment-5257</link>
		<dc:creator>Kit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 18:28:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good luck to you and all your children with all these firsts. The letting go must be so hard when the first one really flies away from the nest. I switched school at fifteen too, and never looked back, it was so much the right decision. I hope it works well for your daughter too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good luck to you and all your children with all these firsts. The letting go must be so hard when the first one really flies away from the nest. I switched school at fifteen too, and never looked back, it was so much the right decision. I hope it works well for your daughter too.</p>
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		<title>By: nuttycow</title>
		<link>http://reluctantmemsahib.wordpress.com/2009/06/19/firsts/#comment-5252</link>
		<dc:creator>nuttycow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 15:27:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey RM - glad to hear you&#039;re feeling better. What a lot of firsts you&#039;ve been having - some exciting, some scary ... all a good learning process! Best of luck to Hat in her exams - I&#039;m sure she&#039;ll cruise through them and then you&#039;ll wonder what you were worrying about. 

The new blog sounds interesting - I&#039;ll have a look when I get a chance.

Much love x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey RM &#8211; glad to hear you&#8217;re feeling better. What a lot of firsts you&#8217;ve been having &#8211; some exciting, some scary &#8230; all a good learning process! Best of luck to Hat in her exams &#8211; I&#8217;m sure she&#8217;ll cruise through them and then you&#8217;ll wonder what you were worrying about. </p>
<p>The new blog sounds interesting &#8211; I&#8217;ll have a look when I get a chance.</p>
<p>Much love x</p>
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		<title>By: reluctantmemsahib</title>
		<link>http://reluctantmemsahib.wordpress.com/2009/06/19/firsts/#comment-5250</link>
		<dc:creator>reluctantmemsahib</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 05:53:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thank you ann, much, much better now. x

hello Potty, lovely to see you. and hoping to see you ... x

dear Mapesbury, that sounds like a wonderful wander down memory lane for somebody. fabulous. as for being married to old men ... xx

Thank you MDTaz, that&#039;s very kind. Keep writing. x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thank you ann, much, much better now. x</p>
<p>hello Potty, lovely to see you. and hoping to see you &#8230; x</p>
<p>dear Mapesbury, that sounds like a wonderful wander down memory lane for somebody. fabulous. as for being married to old men &#8230; xx</p>
<p>Thank you MDTaz, that&#8217;s very kind. Keep writing. x</p>
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		<title>By: reluctantmemsahib</title>
		<link>http://reluctantmemsahib.wordpress.com/2009/06/19/firsts/#comment-5249</link>
		<dc:creator>reluctantmemsahib</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 05:51:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Iota: how lovely to see you. Yes. Illnesses with Capital Letters. You have been in my thoughts often. x

Irene, you&#039;re right. Some firsts are devastating. And all the more so because of just that: being a First. Thanks for commenting.

janelle, hello x yes. I think it was. A success. He seemed to think so, which is all that really counts x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Iota: how lovely to see you. Yes. Illnesses with Capital Letters. You have been in my thoughts often. x</p>
<p>Irene, you&#8217;re right. Some firsts are devastating. And all the more so because of just that: being a First. Thanks for commenting.</p>
<p>janelle, hello x yes. I think it was. A success. He seemed to think so, which is all that really counts x</p>
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		<title>By: MDTaz</title>
		<link>http://reluctantmemsahib.wordpress.com/2009/06/19/firsts/#comment-5248</link>
		<dc:creator>MDTaz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 22:10:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yours was the first mom-blog I added to my blogroll, the first one I discovered that really motivated me to try it out, for real.   We exchanged brief e-mails, and you said you were thinking about this subject, the big D.  I&#039;m glad you&#039;re writing about it now.  It&#039;s bold.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yours was the first mom-blog I added to my blogroll, the first one I discovered that really motivated me to try it out, for real.   We exchanged brief e-mails, and you said you were thinking about this subject, the big D.  I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;re writing about it now.  It&#8217;s bold.</p>
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